Saturday, July 23, 2011

191. KISS AGAIN! PART 17 BOILING POINTS OR TURNING POINTS (191)

Common sense suggests that approaching walls of denial becomes more exhausting than wise.  In order for self-control to by-pass its boiling point, a turning point declares “Enough is enough!” 

As to love connections, which are deeply valued on both sides, well, in most cases the relationship limps along until exhaustion pulls the switch on that turning point; the light of hope goes out, and both sides grope around more in the dark than ever before.


Once my spirit takes time to rejuvenate, hope re-ignites.
And once again, I tunnel toward the light.

Denial creates attitude—and attitude is everything.
When you are driving a car toward a wall—the wall always wins.
Denial does not allow you know when your wall is up.
Let anxiety be your guide.

If attitude is everything, then self-awareness is the key to unlocking cages.


When I want to open a tin and set imprisoned strengths free to identify which of my negatively focused attitudes may be misperceiving and damaging a relationship, I value deeply, I look into my mirror.


As you shall see, when the subject is love, I've learned to set my sights on this hope:  As long as two people are on this side of the grass, my sights are set on turning points more frequently than boiling points or breaking points.
        

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