Friday, November 8, 2013

829. BOTH OPTIMIST AND PESSIMIST NEED TO ENHANCE CLARITY INTO OBJECTIVITY …

KNOW THYSELF suggests that the cock-eyed optimist and pessimist need to identify injuries to self esteem, which remain subconsciously unhealed, thus creating pessimistic attitudes in need of change.  You see, pessimistic attitudes, left in an unidentified state, darken our views.  And yes, even optimists develop pessimistic views about certain aspects of life.  Since 'attitude is everything', everyone needs to recognize those times when pessimistic attitudes darken our perceptions, because darkened perceptions thwart us from achieving certain heartfelt goals.

As two people work toward identifying emotional injuries to their self esteem (which, left unhealed, cause fear of abandonment or failure to fester, subconsciously) their injured relationship begins to heal itself.  And here is why that's true:
As each person works at healing injured aspects of self esteem, both minds grow more objective (less defensive).  And as clarity into objectivity is the strength that elevates leadership to greatness, we achieve those heartfelt goals, which insecurity kept beyond reach …

As clarity into objectivity strengthens on both sides, self respect is enhanced, mutual respect deepens, and trust is renewed.  Pour healthy portions of self respect, mutual respect, and trust into a bowl, turn the mixmaster to high and blend a sense of personal safety and well being into your home life that's as tasty as Grandma's recipe for chocolate cake, which everyone in the family gathers to enjoy.  Now, sprinkle some colorful fun on top of your favorite things and create a nourishing party of life, love and laughter where positively focused attitudes feel welcomed to thrive and spirits feel fully alive.  I mean, who in their right mind wouldn't be eager to come home to an emotional environment such as that! :)

PS ... What else do both people need to know if attitudes, concerning conflict resolution, are to change from impossible to probable to resolvable?  (You know how it is … one train of thought leads to another :)

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