It's important to note that this game requires finesse, so it can take time to develop skill in taking turns and playing it well. You know—like bridge—or chess. Or better yet, like: 'he-said-she-said'. The last thing you want to pull out is a Poker face, because expressing honest emotion and showing your hand are imperative for success. You see, in addition to listening acuity, mutual respect and trust, winning depends upon both sides choosing words with care. No pushiness (bullying) or put downs (bullying) allowed. Each time we engage in this game of FOUR PILLARS, each player is required to listen in depth, ask pertinent questions, and think deep before we speak. ;-)
Hmmm—I think I may have led you astray. Once depth perception kicks in there's lots more to consider than just one, two, three 'simple' rules. In order for lasting friendships to remain close, both sides depend more upon depth during hard times rather than only fun, fun, fun!
Holy smokes—for some reason END BULLY FOR ME Part 5 is firing up inside my head, so let's table this game before I burn a hole in my brain. Suddenly, I can't wait for this train of thought to reach the station where BULLY FOR ME gets off and FIRST KISS gets on.
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