In case your brain is fooling you, this may be a good time to rent:
WHERE THE BOYS ARE
TOWN WITHOUT PITY
SPLENDOR IN THE GRASS
PAYTON PLACE
THIRTEEN
If I may be so bold as to make a suggestion, first I'd watch these films on my own and then with my kids. In this way, you may ease into serious discussions, based upon insights embedded within each story line, concerning engaging in adult sexuality too early in life to have any clue of classic consequences, which follow premature ejaculation—I mean—experimentation.
If you're upbeat and friendly and show no signs of embarrassment, your kids may feel more trusting in terms of coming to you with questions when their hormones are as bouncy as jumping beans on the loose.
I remember when my eleven year old and I were sitting side by side on the couch, watching a steamy scene taking place, on a prime time soap ... the main characters had been heating it up in bed when my child turned to me and said: You and Dad don't do that!! Laughingly I asked: How do you know?
Well, responded my child, I never saw you rolling around in your bed.
Pointing to the T.V., I replied: Take another look—do you see any kids in the room watching them?
Once my child's jaw stop dropping in shock, I made good use of this moment to initiate a talk about adult sexuality and developing one's sense of respect for the privacy of others ...
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