As my last post (expressing concern over the lasting effects of parental bullying) proved to be the beginning of an insight-driven train of thought that my power of intuition feels need to complete, I'll begin today’s post by copying and pasting my last post directly below this introduction, thus creating a sense of continuity that will feel as clear to you as is true for me, so with thoughts of diving into the deep end of my mind where we’ll swim around until we catch sight of an insight-laden sense of clarity that’s ready to surface, let’s take a moment to straighten our thinking caps —Ready! Set! Go!
Just as our processors are susceptible to anxiety testing our patience when we have no clue as to why abnormal cellular material has invaded healthy body tissue, creating dis/ease that disturbs the natural progression of our personal lives, I have no clue as to why the natural cadence of a post may be disrupted by an abrupt change in font size, which, due to my limited knowledge concerning the complex functionality of my computer, mystifies my processor as is also true when autocorrect maddeningly changes my word choice to something that makes no sense. Take yesterday’s post for example when none of my best efforts to repair a font’s lapse in conformity did anything other than tax my patience, so rather than viewing myself as ‘the boss’ of my post’s font size, I chose to switch my attitude from impatience to acceptance concerning the fact that my computer’s hard drive had chosen to ignore my well behaved pleas in similar fashion to the fact that anyone who attempts to boss a child’s independent spirit to comply with parental pleas (which transform into impatient commands) is naturally fated to fail unless the child’s inexperienced mind has been brow-beaten to such a relentless degree by an authority figure whose bullying attitudes prove so single-minded as to lambast the youngster’s self image until, eventually, the independent nature of his/her spirit feels broken by a threatening barrage of battering, which makes so little sense as to shatter a young person's natural connection to clarity of thought as happened to the main character in the movie SHINE played brilliantly by Geoffrey Rush.
Wikipedia:
SHINE is a 1996 Australian biographical drama film based on the life of pianist David Helfgott, who
Suffered a mental breakdown (under the battered tutelage of his father) and spent years in institutions.
I still shudder when reflecting over the scene in which David’s father, a holocaust survivor, is seen
beating his child (a gifted pianist) for not playing a highly complex composition with perfection while
Declaring: No one will ever love you as much as I do.
Nothing messes with the human brain’s natural development of
Mental clarity as does a mixed message that proves as madly confounding as that.
Emotional battering cripples the development of clarity within
The human mind just as sticks and stones can break our bones
If love is synonymous with ‘giving the best of yourself’ most
Especially during life’s most trying times when
Two loving spirits have need to work hand in hand toward embracing
A conscientious awareness of placing power struggling attitudes in
Time out so as to refocus both minds toward reinforcing
Your connection [and mine] to a host of inner strengths with which
Our thought processors ascend toward heightened levels of
Lucidity with intelligence and patience intact then
The opposite of a loving spirit is one that has absorbed only one way
To feel secure whenever conflict resolution is necessary, and that way
Suggests calling forth a bullying attitude that stomps down so hard on
Your loving spirit (which is single-mindedly focused upon
Maintaining the peaceful co-existence of your family’s
Emotional environment) as if blasting out with an icy tone of
Voice so as to release fiery bolts of insulting intonations meant to
Blindside your most loving vulnerabilities, empowers
A bully to usurp a stance of mind-control over
A loved one's generosity of spirit until such time as
A last straw goes one of two ways—
Either your spirit’s inner strengths will stand up in
Calm, lucid defiance of absorbing even one more lash of
Undeserved guilt or eventually, your strength of spirit will
Quietly crash into the deep dark pit of emotional despair where
Your host of inner strengths may appear vanquished for
Quite some time until reality nudges your thought processor of
Readiness to become ever more attentive to a slow-mo awakening of
An insight-driven deeper truth that spotlights your
Personal need to make sound use of your smart heart to
Speak aloud with such a consistent, self assertive, calm and
Patient voice as to rally everyone who cares to reflect over
This timeless fact of life: as opposites attract, every
Stout-hearted, open-minded, supportive spirit is bound to connect with
A defensive person's wall of denial, from time to time, and
With that thought in mind, your spirit (as is true of mine) has been
Quietly gaining in strength, little by little; however, as long as
Your spirit continues to cave (so as to dodge greater doses of
The bully's belittling tongue lashings) your power of intuition will
Not arise to whisper these words of wisdom into your ear:
Every strong spirit will crash into walls of denial, from
Time to time. Sometimes the wall of denial will belong to
Another, and sometimes the wall of denial will be our own until
At some point down the road, a day will dawn when adults (who
Know they can depend upon a strong support system, based in
Unconditional love) will no longer cower blindly behind
A tremulous smile that frees a defensive personality (inexperienced in
The art of compassion-based, solution-seeking communication skills) to
Ratchet up bullying techniques, which, thus far, have won the driver's seat by
Throwing tantrums as would the irrational mind of
An undisciplined child whenever conflict-resolution begins to
Take place with a logically minded adult, and though yesterday
That scenario may have caused your spirit's inner strengths to crash but
Not burn so that, like The Phoenix, your spirit rises from the ashes feeling
Empowered to approach a bullying attitude, anew that's not true when
An adult with a bullying attitude lashes out at the vulnerability of
A child’s inexperienced thought processor, which is why
Our precious youth have need of a lovingly protective
Adult support system focused proactively upon making sound use of
Each person's emotional maturity whenever clarity suggests that
A positively focused intervention proves necessary to
Counteract the negatively focused put downs that bully a child, whose
Kind-hearted mind has not yet developed a conscious comprehension of
Intuition's inner need to 'fight' to retain his/her fledgling sense of
Self respect crashes and burns so often that, sadly, another
Youthful spirit is broken as seen when a young head, hanging down, begins to
Unconsciously repress rebellion deep inside in favor of conforming to serve
The bully’s need for dominance over all—Not on my watch! declares
Your intuitive voice, which resides deep within your mind (and
Mine) where inner strengths (feeling compelled to
Voice your personal convictions) begin to connect so consistently with
Courage as to envision our think tanks taking one bold leap of faith after
Another to ensure that we, who make up an innocent child’s support system, remain
Unafraid to give voice to personal perceptions guaranteed to rock the boat that's
Been heading straight toward a rocky coastline, directly ahead, unless
And intelligent sense of creativity designs a life raft, which, being primed not
To sink guides our intuitive powers to draw forth a voice that's grown in
Maturity in hopes of rebalancing each relationship that showcases one side
Working consistently toward garnering personal strengths so as to
Relieve insecurities, left unresolved during our childhood, from building
Defensive walls around our hearts where power plays for dominance feel
Need to lash out with put downs that insult every kindhearted reaction
Verbalized by this smart heart or that one, which, having come to
Understand the classic nature of negatively focused mind games that
Break families apart refuse to engage with tantrums, and once tantrums have
No opponents, who react to insults, flung around, mind games begin to
Switch tracks, so that healing on all sides can truly begin
And thus do we come to see why fledgling spirits of children, like David
The gifted pianist, have need of adults, whose
Spirits have grown so emotionally mature as to speak up
Protectively and thus pro-actively until such time as
The inexperienced thought processors of our young can
No longer be blindly brow beaten into cowering submissively to
Adult 'authority' figures, who have gained no conscious clue of
How often they attempt to put down a peace loving
Extended family, whose inner strengths refuse to
Follow the negative side of human nature straight into hell, because
Deeper truth suggests that true leadership grows ever more aware of
Everyone’s need to stand together in unison guided by
The postulate of divided we fail to achieve long range goals, united
We prioritize hard won familial strengths, which provide our youth with
A yellow brick road upon which we all take leaps of faith toward
Gently guiding a bully in such firm but loving ways as to
Choose to switch tracks away from future attempts to
Defy a family’s host of well-developed inner strengths
And if you ask how I know this theory to be true
100% of the time—well of course that's not true; however
Achieving perfection at anything directly opposed to the aim of
Today's insight driven, intuitive train of thought being that
Today's thoughts are aimed not at ''knowing' but at 'feeling' inspired by
Past experiences in which loving kindness offered food for thought concerning
The brain's capacity to develop a heartfelt sense of courage, which
Eventually draws forth a hidden stash of humility from within
A homegrown bully's growing sense of self , and though
The strength of humility may be secreted away within
The recesses of a bully's subconscious, today, eventually
Kindness extended may draw forth a deep seated longing to
Feel embraced by those, who adhere to this timeless belief system:
Love that continues to grow spiritually enhanced strengthens during
Life’s trying times, repeatedly, unless one person (who sees him/herself as
A victim) is practiced in only one way of carving out a personal path, which
Proves so negatively focused and complex as to lead every
Think tank in the family, which attempts to remain connected to
Clarity, straight down into hell even though the victim-turned- bully
Had once been rewarded by fate to fall in love with a gifted leader, whose
Loving spirit has been empowered to grow toward adulthood by
Withstanding every negatively focused bolt of insult cast blindly at
His/her tender hearted disposition until this love relationship, made in heaven
Gets to feeling so damaged (because today's bully knows no other
Path other than the one that follows in the footprints of
A long line of bullies, all of whom see themselves as victims), until
That last straw feels compelled to choose one of three paths—
The well trodden path that leads toward divorce court
The well trodden path upon which an entire family remains
Trapped within a conundrum that grows ever more confoundingly complex
Or the road less taken ala Walt Whitman
And thus have we highlighted the fact that every love relationship, made in heaven
Will eventually fail, miserably, if neither person removes a blindfold so as to
See why a couple who fell in love are bound to arrive in hell unless
Both, who make up a couplehood that's been sadly in the process of breaking down
Choose to work together in earnest toward admitting that all people have
Two sides, which proves necessary if a love affair made in heaven is to
Repair from the ground up while holding hands with an innocent, inexperienced child, who
Is literally standing between them, looking up to positively focused leadership to manifest
Character traits, which we hope the child will mimic and absorb as her/his own, most
Especially when life's trying times challenge every person's mental awarenesses to
Deepen, little by little, day by day, until insight reveals bigger pictures, which show us
Heartfelt reasons to take leaps of faith away from socially engrained limitations such as
If you have nothing nice to say, say nothing at all? toward giving voice to reveal
Your authentic self while remembering that everyone has vulnerable feelings, which
False pride closes off from public view
And as Edith Ann, rockin’ away on 'Laugh In' during
The turbulent sixties, would say right before sticking
Her tongue out—That’s the truth—Ththththt!
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