IF A CHILD RECEIVES MORE FROWNS THAN EYE-TO-EYE SMILES, WHAT THEN?

 It’s essential to acknowledge that the power of suggestion (concerning the absorption of positive vs negative vibes) connecting parent and child is highly significant.  For the most part—it’s wise to consider that parental facial expressions offered up in judgment of a child’s imperfections is what you are likely to receive in return.

 Just as warm patient smiles beget the brightest of smiles as each new challenge is peaceably achieved, the early onset of unconscious disparaging frowns begets the same from a child whose spontaneous outbreaks of rebellious frustration precede deeply anguished temper tantrums (all too often as seen on both sides).

Here is what most parents new to my classes fail to see:  If you hope to tame a child’s temper the first temper in need of taming through tried and true self-disciplined techniques is your own.

Here is another success-oriented insight concerned with raising children whose bright-eyed smiles appear to be effortless more often than not:  Common sense suggests identifying whether your love is offered unconditionally or must the development of your child’s behavioral traits comply with your unconscious unrealistic expectation of achieving near-perfection (which does not exist naturally anywhere in life)?

Just as some children are born to be your kindred spirits, there are children who may be groomed with loving kindness and flexibility toward becoming your kindred spirits once a great deal of patience on the part of the groomer is practiced, moment by moment, because change for the better starts at the top where well groomed leadership inspires (not to be confused with ‘forcing’) youngsters to choose to follow the Pied Piper down the path where harmonic methods of self control are consistently role modeled at home.

How can such a welcome change concerning the taming of emotional reactiveness (on both sides) take place?  By leadership subscribing to an attitude revering 

‘Win-Win’.

Throughout the challenging development of my child-raising years, the imaginative portion of my brain created and experimented with the application of four comprehensive tools that encouraged open-minded discussions while we’d considered realistic resolutions of every conflict that had naturally arisen amongst family members within our home, so please stay tuned—

🙋🏻‍♀️Annie