M. ATTITUDES CAN CHANGE BECAUSE ATTITUDES CAN BE CONSCIOUDLY CHOSEN

When you begin to think of attitude as
A matter of personal choice (rather than fact) that’s when
Life (concerning your connectedness to inner peace)
Is likely to change for the better, all around

Before advancing forward with today’s train of thought, let’s review territory covered at the end of the post penned the day before yesterday when you were asked to consider which of three attitudes your intelligence would choose to tap into so as to naturally refuel your processor's primary source of energy in hopes of peaceably defusing defensive reactions, which we know are programmed to raise their fear-based, fang baring, power struggling heads most especially at times when emotional conflicts prove so complex as to be in need of resolving with common sense intact on both sides—Whew!  So, which attitude would your intelligence choose:
A.   A passive, dispirited attitude
B.   An aggressive, fiery attitude
C.   A wholly assertive, proactive attitude

Needless to say, we can’t consciously choose to embrace the most effective attitude as our own until our processors have been consciously trained to intuit moments fraught with deep set emotional conflict, which naturally cause spiking anxiety to release negatively focused attitudes, flashing out defensively from behind our subconscious walls of denial ...

So if you ask how your processor can choose to faithfully remain intellectually observant during conflict rather than feeling as defensively entrapped as a fly in a web once another person’s adversarial defense system is actively provoking yours to engage in a game of King of the Mountain, I’d say ... please hold the phone, because my processor needs a break from working so intently on choosing words that will likely convey the positively focused thought process that challenges my brain to make effective use of its connection to common sense expressly at those times when subconscious combustion is wreaking havoc upon everyone else’s state of emotional reactivity, which invariably ties the logical portion of an adversarial frame of mind into such tight, tense little knots as to render the frontal lobe of the most intelligent processor temporarily incapable of thinking straight to save its own life ... and since today’s insight-driven train of intuitive thought spies no rest station welcoming my tired processor to relax, directly ahead, my intelligence is consciously choosing to assertively pause this free-flow of insights mid stream so as to offer my proactive processor the necessary down time it needs to naturally refuel ... Whew!

Knowing that seeing is believing, upon my return from time out, I’ll aim to show you why defensive attitudes (based in childhood’s out of control, wild eyed, fearful emotional reactivity) need to be readily identified, reined in and tamed if our most heartfelt adult relationships are to be saved from power struggling with the subconscious attitudes of doubting Thomas’s, which wear both spirits down so sadly as to eventually tear intertwined hearts completely apart   ... Double Whew!

As long as my processor remembers to take the time it needs to
Relax inner tension, refuel positivity and reflect objectively over what’s past
My primary energy source will continue to guide my intuitive powers to
Choose the fork in the road less taken, suggesting why
There’ll be no beaten tracks for existential me as this fourth stage of
My life begins to unfold peacefully, gracefully ... naturally